WOW! Lots of messages and instruction this week about manifestation. After you watch the video, be sure to read this week’s post, Don’t Worry, Be Happy to learn the ONE thing that’s a total game changer if you want to manifest awesomeness into your life. Then enter your name and email in the box at the top of this page to get my “secret recipe” for manifesting, The Three Essential Steps to Getting Anything You Want in Life.
Manifesting. That word seems to be everywhere these days and it refers to our ability to draw into our lives anything we desire. Brought to the mainstream world’s attention by Rhonda Byrne’s book, The Secret, it stems from the Law of Attraction which states most simply that we get what we think about.
When you talk to people about this topic there seems to be two camps, those who are manifesting to their heart’s desire and those who think it’s a bunch of hooey. It’s not that they don’t WANT to believe it but they claim they’ve tested it out for themselves and have not yet seen their desires materialize.
So I’m going to let you in on the secret about The Secret….it doesn’t work unless you do! So many people are saying things like, “ I hate my job so I’m just gonna manifest a new one” or “I’m working on manifesting my life partner” and yet these people are essentially putting their feet up and waiting for a Fairy Godmother to wave her wand and deliver what they’ve asked for straight to their front door.
Now I’m a cut to the chase kinda girl so I’m going to tell you like it is. And if that’s your idea of manifesting, you’re gonna be waiting for what you want for a mighty long time.
The real secret is that there’s a recipe to manifesting. A recipe means there are specific ingredients that need to be combined together in order for you to achieve your desired outcome, right? If you leave out a couple of key ingredients, or try to substitute them for something else, then more than likely you’re not going to be satisfied with what you get.
Well it’s the same thing with manifesting. If you don’t follow ALL the steps, or don’t quite implement them correctly, you end up falling short on your expectations. So it’s not that manifesting doesn’t work, it’s just that you aren’t following the recipe. I happened upon this magical combo of ingredients while working on manifesting my own great things like my wonderful dream home, a successful and fulfilling business and even a free drink at Starbucks (you can manifest little things too).
So let me outline for you what I have come to call THE RECIPE.
There are only three ingredients in this recipe and they include three very simple, yet EXTREMELY powerful spiritual tools. When used consistently, the results really can be quite magical.
Step One: PRAYER. Now don’t let this word turn you off before you even get started. You do NOT need to follow an organized religion or have any religious affiliation whatsoever to use this ingredient. It really just means a call for help. You see, our angels and spiritual helpers are not allowed to interfere in our free will. So if we want them to step in and help us, we have to give them permission first. Prayer is like calling your spiritual team into an ethereal boardroom and telling them what you need help with. Then you turn that situation over to them and allow them to get to work on your behalf right away.
Step Two: AFFIRMATIONS. Spiritual Entrepreneur and teacher, John Assaraf, calls affirmations a “to be” list and I just love this because that’s exactly how affirmations work. Repeating these positive statements (worded as if we have already achieved them) helps to re-wire our brain and put us on the path to actualizing the exact things we desire. Cool huh?
Step Three: VISUALIZATION. This is a bit misleading because visualization is really much more than just seeing. It’s really about creating a multi-sensory experience in such vivid detail that it’s like you’re immersed in a scene from a movie. Spending 5-10 minutes every day visualizing what you desire in great detail, really sets the wheels of the universe in motion to help bring it to you. After all, the Law of Attraction states like attracts like. So the more you can visualize what it is that you want, the more like a magnet you become in drawing it to you.
METHOD: It doesn’t matter what order you use these ingredients only that you include ALL of them on a consistent basis.
And there you have it, my magic recipe to get what you desire. But don’t take my word for it. I challenge you to put it to the test for yourself. I’ve created a free three-part video series titled The Three Essential Steps to Getting Anything You Want in Life to help you learn much more. Grab it and get cookin’ today at www.ramonaremesat.com. No messy mixing bowls of whisks required.
Recently I was telling a friend about how my husband’s company is hosting it’s annual family retreat next weekend. I was telling her that the employees, and their families, get treated to an entire weekend of fun family activities, meals and accommodations at a lovely mountain resort in picturesque British Columbia! Her reply was “well aren’t you guys lucky”.
Now I don’t know about you, but when people tell me I’m “lucky” I kind of get mad. It implies that commitment, diligence, tenacity and plain old hard work have nothing to do with things. Like it’s just a matter of being in the right place at the right time as the Universe sprinkles magical fairy dust over the world. Give me a break!
The other reason the idea of “luck” makes me mad is because it implies that we are victims. That we are at the mercy of whatever the Universe dishes out to us. That we simply just must accept and settle for whatever gets thrown in our laps — good or bad. Well guess what I say to that way of thinking? It’s a load of horse manure, that’s what!
Because here’s how it really works folks…WE CREATE THE LIFE WE DESIRE. We are CO-CREATORS in this production we call life. Together with the Universe, you can make your life exactly the way you want it. You don’t have to just sit idly by and hope that you get “lucky”. You create your own luck, folks.
Now I know this might be a bit of a mind-blow moment for some of you. But the truth of the matter is when you want to change a condition in your life, you need to acknowledge your part in it. Try saying this…”I am willing to release the pattern within me that is creating the condition.”
You can say this over and over to yourself whenever you think of your challenge. The minute you say it, you are stepping out of the victim role and acknowledging your own power. You are saying, “I am beginning to understand that I created this. I now take my own power back. I am going to release this old idea and let it go.”
So here’s a little homework assignment for you. Think about something in your life you want to change. Go to a BIG mirror and look into your eyes and say out loud, “I now realize that I have created this condition, and I am now willing to release the pattern in my consciousness that is responsible for this condition.” Say it several times with feeling. Ask yourself if you really mean it. Convince yourself in the mirror that this time you are ready to step out of the bondage this issue has created for you.
And THAT, my friends, is how you begin to create your own luck.
Until next time,
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